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Saturday, October 30, 2021

checking in ~ september through october

Dear friends,

I am sorry to not have been around here a lot lately.  As much as I would love to blog on a regular basis, my motivation has waned. With my mum dying and helping to care for her for the seven months from diagnosis, it has taken a toll on me.

I have good and bad days, lately mostly bad. But the better days are starting to re appear.  Today is one of those days.

There is so much going on here on our little place of dirt. Spring has been slow to emerge but the last week or so we are getting more hot days. Thursday was a terrible spring day, it blew a hot wind from the north and we have a couple of fallen trees and branches as well as stone fruit that were hurled to the ground. The last of my mulberries were instantly dried on the trees that's if they weren't blown into oblivion. It was such a shocker of a day. The day before, I had done some spring cleaning outside, washing things down and sweeping up dirt and leaves and it was looking quite neat and tidy. But now I have to do it all again because everything is covered in red dirt. And the worst thing of all, we didn't get much rain, just 2.5mm.

Yesterday I caught up on laundry. I toddled outside for a looksee at any damage from the wind from Thursday. The good news is that my veggie patch is relatively unscathed. So that is a huge relief. 

I have a lot of photos to share that I have been taking in the hope that I would feel like doing a blog post.  Well today that happened.

We had a new bigger rain water tank installed when the old one developed a leak. We have about 28,000gallons of storage now.


After a bit of thinking we relocated and repaired the old tank using plastic weld.



Tiny daffodil my daughter gave to me for Mother's day as a bulb.


Native flowers for arid lands.






Bird of paradise grows well in these parts.


More gifted bulbs from my daughter.



Mum's blanket has pride of place in my little pop-top van.


Out back... 

In the orchard, the Citrus trees have flowered.


And there were plenty of blossom on the stone fruit trees.

Apricot.


Nectarine...the bees were in heaven!


The pigeon peas continue to flower and are now producing seed pods. Apparently the seeds can be used for making dahl.














































Pumpkin seeds have been planted here.


My huge crop of potatoes haha!


A gift from a special friends garden x


Out the front...









Tulip pelargonium.


A little rearranging to create a nice sitting area in a space not used for anything. A lovely spot for my morning cuppa.


The wormery is doing great! I have been using some of their compost around about.


I had a dehydrator that stopped working, but I think I should still be able to make use of the little shelves. I have parsley drying in them at the moment. We will see how they go.


This citrus blew off the trees during the strong winds.


Make do and mend. I'll get some more miles out of these sneakers and shopping bag.



I made this sign up for putting out the front of our place, because the council insists on spraying along the roadway.


My mum xxx


My little grand daughter watching TV with the blanket I made for her.


Some of the dust from Thursday...


I am creating a potted herb garden.  I have tidied up an area just outside the kitchen so it will be handy to just pop out and pick some herbs when needed.


Basil seeds just planted.



This is par-cel, a cross between parsley and celery. Have you heard of it?


Some baking for lunch time. Veggie pasties and quandong pastry parcels.



Zucchini quiche made for Phil to take to work using home grown zucchini and eggs.


I have been doing a little crocheting. This was given to Mum years ago by a lady that was very ill with  cancer. It was only small when Mum gave it to me to finish off because she didn't crochet.  I had forgotten all about it until I stumbled upon it a couple of weeks ago. I have almost finished it now, but run out of one of the colours so had to finish with a pink row instead of the darker green.



I had a practice run of Attic 24's Yuletide crochet. The pattern is so pretty, so I have found and bought some more yarn to make a bigger version.


Fathers day came and went...My daughter in law made these.


Purchased a pretty daffodil in a pot at local markets.


Lemons from my little tree, these are quite large, with spiderwebs and all!


Still enjoying citrus for our morning breakfast.


The stunning out back colours have returned. Love our beautiful sunsets. The Flinders Ranges in the back ground, taken from our yard.



Ooops this turned into a mega long post. Hopefully you made it to the end.

I'm off to spend the weekend with my Dad. He really is finding life lonely after 64 years of marriage to Mum and now there is just him. He has had to learn how to do things like pay bills, house keep and cook meals. All in all he is doing okay. He has help from his family whenever needed, and at 85 years old he still has his car licence so still very much independent. Mum was very strict about being independent and Dad is continuing on the same way.

Wishing you an enjoyable weekend where ever you are and most of all be happy. Life is way too short to be anything else but happy.

xTania 

17 comments:

  1. So sorry for your loss, it was lovely to see in just reading a few of your posts how much you and your mum loved each other. I am sure she would be happy to see you picked up enough to post even this latest blog post. Thanks

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    1. Thank you so much, it is lovely to hear from you xxx

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  2. Take your time and post whenever you feel like it.
    Your gardens are looking fantastic and productive
    I was inspired by your wicking beds so I got hubby to make some for me
    Hopefully the weather warms up soon and they start to grow
    Take care

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    1. Thank you Angela. So good that you are going to give wicking beds a try, I am sure you will be happy with them.

      xTania

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  3. Hi Tania, Cari from South Africa, I'm a long time reader but never commented. I've always loved your posts full of pictures of your garden adventures in that magnificent wilderness you live in. So sorry to read about your Mum, from what you've said, she was wonderful. I'm so glad I stopped by today, thank you for posting.

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    1. Hello Cari, it is so good to hear from you, and thank you for your kind words xxx

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  4. Tania it is good to see you back. Your place may have been hit hard by the hot dusty winds but your garden still looks amazing. Our son in Gawler copped a hail storm and it is looking like his pride and joy, his Dmax, will be written off. He finds out on Tuesday.
    I hope you start to find the peace and joy in your life. Much love.

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    1. Hi Jane, I am thankful we had the wind dust and not hail. I saw some of the damage that it caused. Weather of extremes on that day!

      My mum is never far from my thoughts. Life is not the same without her, she was everybody's mentor. Always so generous and loving and willing to give sound advice.

      xTania

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  5. I love all the pictures of your garden and those sunset photos are stunning. I am glad to hear that life is starting to give you better days alongside the bad ones. Baby steps. That is what I kept telling myself after my father died. Take care of yourself. X

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    1. Thank you Tracy. It is so hard to move forward without them. But I know I must continue on, it is what Mum would want me to do and there is Dad to take care of. You are so right, baby steps and self care.

      xTania

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  6. Grief is such an all consuming thing and once everyone pays their respect at the funeral everyone goes back to their normal life and you are left with complete numbness. Big hugs for you Tania. Your citrus looks AMAZING I'll bet that makes you feel good in the morning having that with your breakfast. The crochet looks great too. Have a great week. Kathy

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    1. Thank you Kathy, you are exactly right about feeling numb after the funeral. While Mum was sick, I was bomb-barded with phone calls etc, now I hear basically nothing from anyone.

      xTania

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  7. Hello Tania. How wonderful to see your post pop up. I am so sorry to read you are still having lots of bad days but I do think you need to allow yourself this time to grieve for your dear Mum & not expect too much from yourself. Grieving is so different for all of us - some take quite a long time & its necessary to work through the process at your own pace.
    Its lovely to see your photos & you still produce so much good homegrown food. I love the one of your grandaughter tucked up under the blanket you made her. I can relate to the strong winds as we get them here too Tania & they take away all the goodness that the rain does. We don't get the red dust that you do though.
    I did not mean to write so much - take care dear Tania. Sending you gentle hugs across the oceans & the miles. xxxx 💕

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    1. Hello Julie. It is always great to hear from you. You know the right words to say and I appreciate them all. Thank you so much xxxx

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  8. Tania, I am so sorry to hear about your mum. I understand how you feel about not being motivated to blog as I have been a bit the same. I am sure you would have many happy memories of your mum and I hope your dad copes well for many years to come.

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    1. Hello Nanna Chel.

      I have just spent the weekend with Dad and he seems to be coping with his new way of life, not that he wants it that way though. He and I had great talks and I am going to teach him to use a slow cooker to make his life a little easier. He is keeping himself busy, he is a tinkerer and community involved so I think he will find his way eventually. I am very proud of him, he went through hell with Mum, and I thought he would give up on life, but he hasn't.

      Many fond memories of my Mum, she was only 5ft nothing and 40kg but a very strong and independent woman. She lived a wonderful life, exactly as she wanted to.

      xTania


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  9. First time to your blog.....really nice and interesting.....thank you. Regarding the Pigeon Peas. I started growing them a year or so ago and although the dried seed is good for dahl etc. I really like harvesting the pods when still green and then I freeze the green pigeon peas to use in soups and stews.

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